Toolbox: Responding to Hitting + Hurting

• completely overwhelmed by your child’s sudden hitting, kicking, or biting

• second-guessing everything you do, because it feels like whatever you do is just making it worse

• done with those “wow, you’ve really got your hands full” stares

• worried you’re doing it all wrong and totally messing up your kid

• tired of feeling totally lost

Parenting can be unbelievably tough—and when you’re dealing with a hitting, kicking, screaming kid, it can feel completely impossible. But you don’t have to go through this alone! We’ll help you feel confident, connected to your kids, and sure about what to do next.

 

Our expert advice will help you understand why (nearly all!) kids hit, and what they’re telling us when they do. We’ll share five things you can do to stop hitting before it even starts, and give you step-by-step tools for responding when things get out of control.

 

We know that it's easy to get frustrated or lose your patience when your child is struggling, and we're here to help you keep your cool. That's why we've also included some awesome strategies for feeling calm in the face of chaos, so you can help your kid get back on track.

 

So if you're ready to say goodbye to the frustration and hello to feeling confident and empowered all on your own, this is *the* guide for you. Let's work together to bring the joy back to parenting, and help you become the confident, connected parent you’ve always wanted to be.

Recommended for caregivers of kids ages 0-9.

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"As a parent of a kid formerly known as a “biter”, "Hitting and Hurting" has been a game-changer for me. The strategies outlined in this guide have made me feel much more equipped to deal with my son’s big feelings. I've noticed a significant improvement in my kid’s behavior (and I’m not afraid to go to playdates anymore!). Thank you for this amazing resource! - Sara B.

 

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"I cannot thank you guys enough for the impact this guide has had on my classroom. The strategies outlined in this book have calmed my classroom, making it a more peaceful and enjoyable learning environment for everyone. I found a bunch of different strategies to meet my preschoolers where they were at. I highly recommend this guide to any teacher or parent struggling with hitting and biting behaviors. - Jenna K.

 

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"Before reading this guide, I had a very negative mindset about hitting and biting. But after reading this guide, my perspective has totally shifted. The insights and strategies provided in this book have made me more compassionate and understanding towards my child's behavior. I highly recommend this guide to any parent or caregiver struggling with this stuff—it’s hard!. - Josh L.

 

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"I'm so grateful for the tips I learned from Hitting and Hurting. As a parent of a child who realllly struggles with anger, this guide has been invaluable. The tools and strategies have helped me respond to stuff that used to totally unravel me with confidence. Thank you for this amazing resource! - Linnea W.

 

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"Before I found this guide, I felt so alone in my struggles with my child's huge reactions to really…everything. But this guide has been a game-changer for me. The strategies in here are so practical and effective…I saw a difference on day one. I highly recommend this guide to any parent feeling lost like I was.” —Priya R.